No one has the right to dictate how another should feel or see things in their own life's. We all may have similarties with each other but it does not make it exactly the same.
Whether it be on a mental, emotional or physical level. No one else has access to the world we carry around within ourselves except us. We are the sole custodian and entrance to ourselves.
I strongly believe no else can see the world the way we see it. No one else can feel our life's the we feel it. It is impossible to ever compare two people's back grounds because each stands on such different grounds.
When others compare themselves to ourselves they are inviting envy into our consciousness which can be dangerous and counterproductive. Be compassionate with your level of understanding but always be mindful to sheild yourself my friends!