This is an important lesson to remember for all of us, when you are having a bad day, a bad month, or even a shitty year. Things will change my dears. You will not feel this way forever. Sometimes the hardest lessons to learn are the ones we need to learn most. I believe you can't feel real joy unless you have felt heartache. You can't have a sense of victory unless you know what it means to fail. This again is not up to other people to dictate when and how you will be successful or fail at something.Except YOU!! You cannot be reborn again until you have decided to accept what has happened and decide to start all over again with a new attitude and new frame of mind. But always remember what you have learned from that situation. That is where the true power lies, knowledge is power. It is called Transformation! Be the Phoenix that rises from the ashes my dears!